I forgot one. Goliath. I'm pretty sure I met him sometime around "Mr Nice Guy" but it's hard to say it's a total blur at this point.
I met up with Goliath at a cafe in Titirangi. Such a beautiful sunny day, we sat in the window and talked about everything. We shared the same faith and he happened to be working at the same College that I did some of my tertiary studies at which meant that we had a lot to talk about. I love it when you connect with someone on a spiritual and intellectual level and have a really encouraging, uplifting, stimulating conversation.
The problem was that I came up to about his waist which was really strange for me considering I was wearing heels at the time. He must have been about 6'7". I have never met a guy that tall before. I love tall men - the tallest I've ever been out with was 6'3" but this was on a whole other level, literally. Height aside, he wasn't someone I'd physically go for normally - and I'm not really into men who wear very casual (scruffy) sports clothes. But that's just being picky. The fact that we could talk and relate and laugh meant that I was definitely prepared to see him again and have a friendship come out of it if nothing else.
After the coffee, we sat on a park bench in the sun and talked some more - so pleasant! But later that day when I texted him to say thank you (can't remember now what else I said), he replied but didn't ask me out again. I decided that if he were really interested he would ask me out again, but he didn't and he seemed to be hanging out on 'Find Someone' a lot so I figured he was still looking. If he were really that into me he wouldn't wait for me to make that move, so I didn't and that was the last I heard from him.
I met up with Goliath at a cafe in Titirangi. Such a beautiful sunny day, we sat in the window and talked about everything. We shared the same faith and he happened to be working at the same College that I did some of my tertiary studies at which meant that we had a lot to talk about. I love it when you connect with someone on a spiritual and intellectual level and have a really encouraging, uplifting, stimulating conversation.
The problem was that I came up to about his waist which was really strange for me considering I was wearing heels at the time. He must have been about 6'7". I have never met a guy that tall before. I love tall men - the tallest I've ever been out with was 6'3" but this was on a whole other level, literally. Height aside, he wasn't someone I'd physically go for normally - and I'm not really into men who wear very casual (scruffy) sports clothes. But that's just being picky. The fact that we could talk and relate and laugh meant that I was definitely prepared to see him again and have a friendship come out of it if nothing else.
After the coffee, we sat on a park bench in the sun and talked some more - so pleasant! But later that day when I texted him to say thank you (can't remember now what else I said), he replied but didn't ask me out again. I decided that if he were really interested he would ask me out again, but he didn't and he seemed to be hanging out on 'Find Someone' a lot so I figured he was still looking. If he were really that into me he wouldn't wait for me to make that move, so I didn't and that was the last I heard from him.
"If he were really that into me he wouldn't wait for me to make that move, so I didn't and that was the last I heard from him."
ReplyDeleteWith that passive aggressive attitude, you may struggle to meet the man of your dreams.
Not sure I'd call that passive-aggressive but thanks for your comment!
ReplyDeleteI did make sure he knew that I had a good time and it takes two to show interest in my opinion.
Yes it does take two to show interest but why expect the guy to make the first move every time? I am sure you are capable of making the first move.
ReplyDeleteKnowing me I probably had already sent him a smile on Find Someone and suggested we go for coffee and then texted him afterwards to say that I had a good time. I do my fair share :)
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